#5 - Rimming

Well’, we’ve covered all the basic sex positions. In the future days you’ll get more details about some more specific positions relating to anal sex.

However, I wanted first to give some insights on the usage of the rest of the body. Starting with one of the most erogenous parts of it: the tongue.

And because we’ve been talking about Anal Sex, let’s start with some good old rimming.

Warning!: rimming includes direct oral contact with your partner’s ass. Which means this practice is not the safest one, as it can lead to various passing of diseases (not just sexually transmitted ones). I suggest you should perform this activity only with somebody you know and trust.

The activity

Rimming is the activity where you stimulate your partner’s anus with your tongue. Of course, it all startswith some attentive cleaning of the area, and I suggest an enema or an internal douche to get as clean as possible. (both activities should anyway be performed in all cases before any anal intercourse).

Some people only like getting rimmed. Some other love rimming. Some like it both. Whatever you prefer, I suggest you anyway give it a try. And BTW, rimming is not activity that belongs to a specific sexual role. Some top types love rimming their partner’s ass before plunging in it. Some bottoms love the idea of the submission behind rimming. Whatever the reason, take good care. And listen to your partner’s body! 

Listening to his moaning, his movements, his breathing you’ll immediately notice which are the most sensible areas!

And here some suggestions and remarks:

- Shave the area, I know it may be difficult, but shaving the area ensures a better cleaning of it, and it also increases the sensations you have in the area itself.

- Use your hands around your friend’s ass. This will allow, for example, to spread his legs more, making it easier for you to reach the anus.

- Don’t just plunge inside, rimming is all about details, and very often the more sensitive area is the one around the anus, nit just inside. So make sure you inspect the area fully.

- Use your saliva, by rimming use lots of your saliva in the area, also stepping in into your partner’s hole. This will lube the area, and allow also for more deeper entrance.

- Use your finger, fingering your friend’s hole can be an interesting complementary activity. Make sure he likes it!

- Use different positions as there are many ways of rimming, and try them all. There are many ways to try rimming. Here are the more common ones.

 The positions

69 

It’s one of the most common ones and displayed ones. It is done when both partners’ rim each other. I believe it is very erotic and intimate to see… however if you’re like me, and get nuts when rimmed, it might not be the best one (as I cannot concentrate on what I’m doing).

Doggie Style rim

This can lead to a rear-entry or doggie style anal intercourse. The person receiving the rim stays on his four, while the other starts linking the anus from behind.

It is one of the positions where you can get your tongue deeper inside… 

So make good use of it, and show appreciation for your partner’s ass, also by rubbing vigorously his cheeks.

On top rimming

This can be the good start of amissionary style anal intercourse.

It starts with the person receiving the rim on his back on the bed (or any other surface for this matter) spreading his legs in favor of his partner, who can easily start his practice. In this position the partner’s cock is also at hand, which makes it easy to join two oral activities at the same time.

Sitting up

In this position the rimmer is on his back, the partner sits on his face and receives the attention. It’s a kind of submissive position, where the person receiving the rim has full control of the situation. Sometime this can be interestingly accompanies with a bit of “suffocation” if he really sits on his partner’s face (but don’t push it too much).

There are different ways of sitting or squatting for this position to happen… try them all:-)

Summarizing

Rimming can be a lot of fun. And it is also one of the most intimate sexual activities. Don’t just limit it to be a quick foreplay, but make sure you practice it, arousing your partner, helping him relaxed. It is the best way to prepare for a long-lasting fuck.

So now it’s time to practice!

Have fun… safely!