#7 - Standing Sex

After having covered the basics of Anal Sex posts and of Oral Sex Articles we can enter a bit more into the more “complicated” positions of Gay Anal sex. Why do I include Standing Sex in this category? Simple, because standing sex is not as easy as it seems, and many people fail to enjoy this fully because they rush into this activity without knowing much about it, thus ending into an unsatisfactory experience.

First of all we intend Standing Sex when both partners are… uh… standing. One of them can lean on a wall or put his hands somewhere to get balanced, but generally speaking they are both standing. Which means that you should both be more or less the same height. A couple of cm. of difference won’t create problems, but 10 or so could create an issue, so take care about this!.

Preparation

For this position, lubing the anus is really important. Insertion is not always the easiest, that’s way a good rimming session and loads of lube are needed. Plus it is mandatory that this position is exploited by a bottom that has already sex practice, as it is quite difficult to relax, so it may hurt if this is the first time.

The Position

Time to get ready to start uh? The basic position assumes that both people are standing (as said). Bottom person should bent a bit at the beginning, putting his ass backward in order to allow for an easier penetration. I also suggest that he takes a position near a place he could put his hands on in order to balance himself. This position stimulates a lot the “animal instinct” of the top, so you may want to hold to something when your partner starts fucking you hard.

A wall would make it, as well as a chair, or a tree if you’re brave enough to experience wild-forest sex:-)

Suggestion for the bottom: make sure you spread your legs enough to have an easy penetration. And also adapt the angle of penetration by be leaning more or less forward, this will ensure you manage your inside feelings.

For the top, make sure you enter slowly at first, and give time to your partner to get used to your size at first. This will allow to avoid hurt feelings.

An important trick (which also is the first variation of this position) is for the bottom to lift one leg, putting it onto a chair, a sofa, a step etc.

This position is very often used in porn movies because it is best to show the actual penetration.

In real life, however, it is very useful in two cases:

1) When the bottom is taller then the top, this way it’s easier to bring his ass to a lower position.

2) To widener the anus, facilitating the insertion, especially if you have a tight ass.

Are there other standing options? Yes sure, however they get into the realm of more “acrobatic sex”, therefore suggestion, try them only if you’re sure of what you’re doing!

Front-Standing

This position is very often object of lots of fantasies. It allows the top taking full control of the bottoms body. However, it’s only possible if the top is strong enough to lift the partners’ weight. Plus it is necessary yo have a place to balance yourself, as the whole position can be otherwise quite difficult to manage.

One suggestion is to lean against a wall, thus allowing to push a bit of the weight against it.

This position creates a great intimacy, and, as it does not allow a great movement for any of the two, is very “romantic” as well as creates a great feeling between the two partners, allowing kissing and rubbing each other.

Side Standing

This position is only for the fittest ones, as it involves quite some flexibility.

The picture evokes the most difficult version of it (how many of you can lift a leg that way???).

Another solution is to lift the leg wrapping around your lover’s body. Somehow this position allows a lot of fun, is quite balance, and allows to kiss each other. 

However, you need to be exactly same height to get through this.

Summarizing

Standing sex is great in many cases. A typical location for this “performance” is the shower (but attention to the slippery floor), as well as all the places in your home where a bed or a couch is not available. Many people love this position because it feels “natural”. However, I suggest you get to this after having tried some more relaxed ones in bed.

So… time to start practicing!

Have fun… safely!