#6 - Blow-Jobs

Well, we’ve addressed already the Rimming part, which is also to be considered as “oral sex”. So we now are going to talk a bit about blow-jobs, even if we have to admit that of all the activities you’ll be doing with your mouth, blowing is probably the less important.

We define Blow-Job the act of giving pleasure to one’s cock by using your mouth, tongue, lips, teeth and (if you’re brave enough) throat. And actually that’s how all of these body parts are getting involved in to delivering a seriously engaging sexual activity.

The main suggestion is to follow the flow. Everybody’s who’s expert with oral sex knows that you just need to start, fantasy is the limit. For the less experienced ones, just before we go into some tips, make sure you get to know your partner’s cock. Oral sex is the best way to do it, and proves also a really intimate touch with your lover. But don’t do anything you don’t like!

Hints and Tips

- Well, first of all, make sure you are safe and use a condom. Unless you really know the person (no if you’ve been twice to sauna together, that doesn’t count), don’t risk your life. The hazard of oral sex is debated. However, why taking the risk? Its true that your salive may act as a defense, but it is also true that your tongue can have many weak points (blooding gums for example…) so be safe!

- Don’t just stay there, with your mouth open and do nothing. That can be the worst sexual experience, both for who’s receiving the oral sex and who’s gibing it. Play around with your hand, your lips, your teeth (gently), your tongue,. Change positions, vary in pace and angle.

- Look at him, while you’re sucking his cock, try always to keep en eye contact with your partner. This will increase the arousal, and give you also a better feeling.

- Play around, many of the most erogenous body parta are just at reach: balls, ass, perineum (i.e. the area between the scrotum and the anus), are a great place to fussle and make him appreciate your skills. Use your hands as well, especially while you’re sucking, touch his body, keep his thighs, explore him around. 

Positions

Well, fantasy here as well is the only limit to having great Oral Sex. What we’re presenting here is just a selection of some positions, however feel free to experiment, and make sure you listen to your partners sensations in order to understand when he enjoys the most.

Standing

It is one of the most common positions, and is typical of a “quick’n’dirt” style sex. Practiced for ages, it is a very interesting position for both partners involved, as it allows both to move and act.

Typically the giver would take the cock in his mouth and gently suck it, or take it all inside. A good way to enhance this is by taking the partner’s butt with both hands, so to give the correct mouth-fucking pace.

The top guy, in this case, also has various opportunities. Many like to be in control of the situation, keeping the head of the giver and attracting it to the lower portion of the body.

Be careful though, especially if nature’s was kind enough to give you an “important” jewel, not to suffocate your partner.

It may also be good for the giver to masturbate while in this position.

On Bed - Lying

If you’re in bed, option is that you’re lying already. In this case there are different options for you to suck. Depending on the dick size and shape, you either taking from the upper part (like in the picture) or in from the down part (thus lying below your partner).

Again, dick shape may guide you in this respect. In the picture shown you see a great way also to use your hand and masturbate your partners while sucking him off. This will also give an intense feeling.

Seated

Whether on a bed, a couch or so, also seating is another wonderful possibility. Again, the sucker has infinite possibilities, approaching the partner’s shaft from the side (as illustrated) or from the front.

Change position often. Each cock has a different shape, and each mouth is also variously shaped. Moving around is also a way to experiment interesting feelings, making sure you find the best way to arouse you lover.

If you’re receiving the blow-job, don’t just stay there and moan… put your hand gently on your partner’s head, and push it down a bit… and with the other one try to feel his body, and maybe reach his cock… maybe building the way for an interesting 69, or?

Please note the position of the sucker hand. Holding the balls. Always important!

69

Well ok, maybe what is depicted here on the side is a bit too complicated. Leave the acrobatic sex only to fittest amongst you.

Anyway 69 means… mutual cock sucking (or rimming for that matter). 

I suggest you start on a bed or a flat surface, staying side by side in front of each other. This is the best way to practice a 69 if you like, without having somebody stay on top. In this case, there is always the danger of a too violent mouth fucking, the person down doesn’t have loads of freedom to move, and everything might well go complicated.

However, once you’re experience, it will get great as well.

So everything great with 69? Well, somehow is the best way to give mutual pleasure with sex. However, if you’re really into oral sex, you may dislike this position, as you may want to concentrate on the pleasure you’re giving or getting once at a time.

Mouth-fucking

Well, there are various positions for this to happen. Difference with the positions listed so far is hat the sucked person plays an active role as he actually “fucks” his buddy’s mouth with a pelvic movement of in and out.

These activity should be reserved to those that are already accustomed to oral sex. A big important thing relates to the cock size you’re getting. Unless you’re ready to get into deep-throat, make sure you can accomodate that cock in your mouth and or give a limit to your partner in how much he can push inside.

The position you see here on the left is typical to be performed on a bed, but mouth-fucking can be done also standing, seated etc.

Again, here as well, fantasy is the limit! 

Recommendation, in this position make sure you’re not stressing your neck too much, as it may result in some injuries.

Reversed Mouth-fuck

One very interesting alternative is to use a reversed mouth fuck, like in the picture here on the side. Hw? The sucker should lay upward on the bed or a table, with the head out of the borders so that it is free to move.

The partner can therefore insert his cock inside the mouth of the guy. it is important to say that this position is perfect for deep-throating, as it aligns the throat perfectly, therefore allowing for a deeper insertion. 

However, don’t get in to fast. You need to relax a lot, and because the neck is free the person my also need some support for his head.

Deep Throating

We’ve mentioned this already a couple of time. Deep-throating is the technique where the cock is allowed to enter also into the throat of the receiver, not only the mouth. The biggest obstacle in achieving this is is the tendency of throwing up and suffocating that the sucker may incur into. So never rush into deep-throating. Learn to do it slowly, and with a partner you trust!

However, many people love the feeling of subtle suffocation that holding a big in their throat gives. If you’r lucky to find one of these guys, make sure you don’t exploit it too much and with too much violence, ok?

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Summarizing

Enjoying a great oral sex session can be very rewarding. Some people see it as less intense than anal sex. To some extent we may agree, however if you put fantasy and a touch of innovation each time, you’ll get really a lot out of it. In some of my experience, best sexual chemistry you get with one person is when you get good satisfaction also from the oral part. Which is also the perfect solution to have a pleasurable moment also far from home :-) 

So, now it’s time to practice!

Enjoy… safely!